Phone dating is a great way to explore what you want and learn how to use your voice. Knowing how to ask for what you want is sexy and people will appreciate your direct way of communicating your needs. If you are direct and communicate with grace and show other people by the words you choose and the tone you carry what you want, you will soon know if your phone friend is on the same page as you. This helps to not waste time and also provides space for the people who are on the same page to build with you. 

Asking for what you want may seem intimidating, especially if you’re not sure what you want. Understanding what you want and what you are looking for on the chat lines is a sure way to help you come closer to what you want. If you are unsure of what you want, you can always talk to someone on the chat lines about how to figure that out. Simply knowing that you want to find out what you want and talking about it with people could push you into the direction of learning more about your desires. 

In-person dating can be even more daunting in terms of asking directly for what you want. If you do ask someone on the chat lines for something specific and he isn’t into it or is looking for something else, that’s okay, just end the mobile phone call. You can redial the chat line number and speak with someone new. Don’t give up in finding someone who will speak with you about whatever it is you’re into because many people on the chat lines are open and interested in exploring an array of things.